Giving Compliments in English
We celebrate the National Compliment Day on January 24.
This is a great excuse to give away compliments and brighten someone’s day (make the person feel good or positive). Giving a sincere, or honest, compliment is an easy way to make someone feel happy and confident.
The word compliment is both a noun and a verb. As a noun, it means praise or something nice you say to someone.
As a verb, the word compliment means to praise or to say something nice to someone. In English, both the verb and noun forms of this word are commonly used.
To give a great compliment, remember these tips:
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We are all unique and special. A compliment should praise something good about a person. Think about what you like or admire about the person you are complimenting.
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Give sincere compliments. Mean what you say. People know if you give a fake compliment. An honest compliment can make someone feel loved and appreciated.
- In nearly all cases, you can always find something good about the person to compliment.
Compliments in English
Here are some structures you can use to give compliments in English.
Uses: telling someone you like/love their appearance (how they look), skills, belongings
Examples:
- I love your smile!
- I really like your car.
- I like the way you dance.
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I really love the story you wrote.
Pronoun + is/are + (a/an) + (really) + adjective + noun phrase
Uses: praising someone’s appearance or belongings
Examples:
- Those are really beautiful paintings.
- That is a nice haircut.
- Those are cute shoes.
- That’s a pretty drawing.
Adjective + noun phrase
Uses: short compliments
Examples:
- Great work!
- Good job!
- Wonderful meal!
- Cute baby!
Noun phrase + is/are + (really) + adjective
Noun phrase + look/looks + (really) + adjective
Uses: praising someone’s appearance, belongings, or skills
Examples:
- Your hair is really cute!
- Your dress looks pretty!
- Your drawing is amazing.
- Your typing skills are really impressive.
You/he/she/they + verb + (a/an) + (really) + adjective + noun phrase
Uses: praising someone’s skills
Examples:
- You did really good work (on the test).
- She cooked a fantastic meal!
- They wrote a really inspiring song!
You/they + have + (a/an) + (really) + adjective + noun phrase
He/she + has + (a/an) + (really) + adjective + noun phrase
Uses: praising someone’s appearance or belongings
Examples:
- They have amazing talent!
- You have a really beautiful voice.
- He has a fancy car!
- She has really pretty eyes.
You + verb + noun phrase + (really) + adverb
Uses: praising someone’s skills
This structure uses adverbs to describe how someone did something.
Examples:
- You performed really well (on the test).
- You cooked the meal perfectly!
- You drew the picture very nicely.
What + (a/an) + adjective + noun phrase
Uses: praising someone’s appearance, skills, belongings, and more
Examples:
- What beautiful shoes you are wearing!
- What a lovely meal!
- What a realistic picture you have drawn!
- What a great job!
Responding to compliments in English
Here are a few phrases you can use to respond to compliments:
- Thank you (very much)!
- Thanks!
- Thanks for the compliment.
- I’m glad you liked it.
- I appreciate that.
- It’s very nice of you to notice.
- I am happy to hear that!
Homework
Talk or write to 5 different people you like, and give them compliments! :-)