Giving Compliments in English

 

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We celebrate the National Compliment Day on January 24.

This is a great excuse to give away compliments and brighten someone’s day (make the person feel good or positive). Giving a sincere, or honest, compliment is an easy way to make someone feel happy and confident. 

The word compliment is both a noun and a verb. As a noun, it means praise or something nice you say to someone. 

As a verb, the word compliment means to praise or to say something nice to someone. In English, both the verb and noun forms of this word are commonly used.

To give a great compliment, remember these tips:

  1. We are all unique and special. A compliment should praise something good about a person. Think about what you like or admire about the person you are complimenting.

  2. Give sincere compliments. Mean what you say. People know if you give a fake compliment. An honest compliment can make someone feel loved and appreciated.

  3. In nearly all cases, you can always find something good about the person to compliment.

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Compliments in English

Here are some structures you can use to give compliments in English.

I + (really) + like/love + noun phrase

Uses: telling someone you like/love their appearance (how they look), skills, belongings 

Examples:

  • I love your smile!
  • I really like your car.
  • I like the way you dance.
  • I really love the story you wrote.

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Pronoun + is/are + (a/an) + (really) + adjective + noun phrase

Uses: praising someone’s appearance or belongings

Examples:

  • Those are really beautiful paintings.
  • That is a nice haircut.
  • Those are cute shoes.
  • That’s a pretty drawing. 

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Adjective + noun phrase

Uses: short compliments

Examples:

  • Great work!
  • Good job!
  • Wonderful meal!
  • Cute baby!

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Noun phrase + is/are + (really) + adjective

Noun phrase + look/looks + (really) + adjective

Uses: praising someone’s appearance, belongings, or skills

Examples:

  • Your hair is really cute!
  • Your dress looks pretty!
  • Your drawing is amazing.
  • Your typing skills are really impressive.

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You/he/she/they + verb + (a/an) + (really) + adjective + noun phrase

Uses: praising someone’s skills

Examples:

  • You did really good work (on the test).
  • She cooked a fantastic meal!
  • They wrote a really inspiring song!

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You/they + have + (a/an) + (really) + adjective + noun phrase

He/she + has + (a/an) + (really) + adjective + noun phrase

Uses: praising someone’s appearance or belongings

Examples:

  • They have amazing talent!
  • You have a really beautiful voice.
  • He has a fancy car!
  • She has really pretty eyes.

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You + verb + noun phrase + (really) + adverb

Uses: praising someone’s skills

This structure uses adverbs to describe how someone did something.

Examples:

  • You performed really well (on the test).
  • You cooked the meal perfectly!
  • You drew the picture very nicely. 

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What + (a/an) + adjective + noun phrase

Uses: praising someone’s appearance, skills, belongings, and more

Examples:

  • What beautiful shoes you are wearing!
  • What a lovely meal!
  • What a realistic picture you have drawn!
  • What a great job!

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Responding to compliments in English

Here are a few phrases you can use to respond to compliments:

  • Thank you (very much)!
  • Thanks!
  • Thanks for the compliment. 
  • I’m glad you liked it. 
  • I appreciate that. 
  • It’s very nice of you to notice.
  • I am happy to hear that!

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Homework


Talk or write to 5 different people you like, and give them compliments! :-)

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